Tips 
            for handling kids 
            updated 
            Apr 2020
             
            A visitor can be 
            a dream or a nightmare. It's all up to YOU!  
             
More about some typical visitor behaviour that guides may find difficult to handle. Be aware, that half of the 
            problem is YOU. 
             
Kids can be the easiest or more difficult visitors to handle. It's 
            all up to YOU!  
             
            Good things about kids  
             
They can find things very well: they are short, they are sharp-eyed, 
            they are curious. Encourage them by praising them EVERY TIME they 
            find something. EVERYTHING they find is interesting, say something 
            about every find.  
             
Even these things
            
              - Dead leaves: 
                they break down into little bits and are eaten by animals. Some 
                animals like the Leaf porter crab hide under them.
 
               
              - Small stones: 
                "How do you think it got so smooth?". Animals and seaweeds may 
                be stuck to the stone. Some animals look like stones!
 
               
              - Dead corals: 
                explain coral structure
 
               
              - Dead snails: 
                here's more about talking about dead 
                  snail shells 
 
               
              - Bits of rubbish: 
                talk about littering.
 
                 
              - Piece of 
                wood: animal bore into them.
 
               
              - The 20th 
                crab that they found: observe behaviour, compare with previous 
                crabs seen
 
              - Dead animal: 
                "Let's see what is eating them?" talk about scavengers, "Why do 
                you think it died?" 
 
             
            They ask a lot 
              of questions. Encourage them. No question is stupid.  
               
              Parents who come with kids often do so for the kids' sake. Don't 
              try to entertain the parents at the expense of the kids. If you 
              take care of the kids and ensure they have a good time, the parents 
              will also be happy.  
               
              Not so good things about kids  
               
              They are restless and won't listen. This is good practice for you 
              to keep your stories short and relevant. 
              Give them 'assignments'. "Who can find me a crab?" "How many different 
              kinds of seaweed can you find?"  
               
              They interrupt you and say silly things. This is good practice for 
              you to re-arrange your talk and tour to match the interests of your 
              visitors.  
               
              They pick up things and disturb things. This should be minimised 
              if you had done a good pre-walk briefing about not touching, and 
              a good first station about how every inch of the shore is alive.  
               
              But if they persist 
            
              -  Ask why 
                they are disturbing the animal. Usually, it's because they want 
                to see it come out or to do something interesting. Encourage them 
                to observe quietly.
 
               
              - Encourage 
                parents to control the kids by explaining what will happen if 
                the kids persist. "If you keep trying to touch that crab it might 
                bite you". "If you bring home that snail it will die and be very 
                stinky".
 
             
             They run all 
              over the place. This should be minimised if you had done a good 
              pre-walk briefing about not climbing rocks and sticking together. 
              Try to find out what they find interesting and stick to those things. 
              Kids generally like crabs, small animals. They are not interested 
              in plants.  
               
              Not so good things about parents  
               
              Parents may say something that is wrong. Try to gently correct. 
              If not, just let it go. It's not the end of the world. Better to 
              save the parents face than to force the issue.  
               
              Parents may encourage kids to do the wrong thing: touch things, 
              annoy animals, etc. Gently highlight the dangers of such action. 
               
              Don't 
                be a bad guide. Be a good 
            guide instead.  |